I've decided not to go password protected. It seemed like a pain in the ass. But I am making some changes.
I got a little bothered by three things.
The first being that my name and blog appeared on a website that was against ART, and specifically the kind of path I chose. I don't really need anybody coming here who isn't in support of what I've been through. (go away!)
The second was that someone said that one of my ultrasound photos had appeared somewhere else, and that someone was claiming it as their own. (why would you do that? that's just desperate and wierd)
The third was that I started to fear that someone who knows me IRL would find this (or had found it) and know more about how I got pregnant than I care for them to know. (to that person, if you're here: If I didn't share this info with you personally - then it's none of your business and you shouldn't be digging.)
So - I'm keeping the blog open. But I have taken down all my old posts about my IF journey, the archive now only goes back to the beginning of my pregnancy. And I have taken down all photos and images. I won't be posting pictures here.
If you have come here because you heard that I experienced something similar to what you are going through, and you're looking for support and a comrade in arms - I would be more than happy to tell you my whole story and answer any questions I can. Just email me at whatifthis at hotmail dot com.
If you are here because you have been following me all along and want to keep following - then please stay, I'm not going away.
If you want to see pictures of me or the babies... I have another blog that I keep for my family. My 'public' blog. Email me. If I "know" you and/or I think you're legit, then I'll send you a link to my other blog where I post pics. You just have to promise that you would never leave a comment there that would lead anyone back here. These two worlds are separate.
thanks for sticking with me.